I have a job!!! The air the last two days here in Upstate, SC has been cool, crisp, and is distinctly laced with the scent of Fall. Only the smell of rain rivals its refreshing properties. Just taking a breath renews your soul and makes you truly happy to be alive. Adding to my happiness was the succussful interview of the morning and the call shortly after that told me what I've been waiting over a year now to hear...you got the job! It's certainly not the job I was planning to get; it has nothing to do with my major. My Dad talked to some people at his work and it turns out that they have been desparately trying to fill a 3rd shift position for a long time and they are willing to train a new person the skills needed to perform the task. I'm a bit nervous about switching to 3rd shift, but I'm a natural night owl and can sleep just about anytime, so I think I'll adjust fine. My sister is having her gallbladder taken out tomorrow, well actually later today (Friday). They changed the time of her surgery to 7:30AM. She has to be there at 5:30AM, so we have to leave our house at 4:30AM, so I have to get up at 4:00AM, so I just decided to try and stay up all night, in order to get ready for the start of my job Sunday night at 11PM.
The new job will offer me a great deal of freedom! Most importantly I'll be able to fund the classes I plan to begin taking in January in order to obtain my Medical Technologist certification so that I can eventually get the kind of job I planned to get in the first place. I will earn valuable work experience and prove once and for all to my future interviewers that I am capable of holding down a full-time position. I will have financial freedom...for the first time, really ever, I will have a decent amount of money in my checking account. It is hard to even budget or plan things when you don't have a steady income to count on. And last, but not least, I will be able to move out of my parents house! We actually have been getting along extemely well, and niether of us are really in a hurry to part ways...but at this point in all our lives it's only natural for me to want to move out, and for them to want me to move out. Now, I will be able to do so, and that is a fun and exciting thing to think about.
As these things tend to go...the woman that hired me just happens to have a friend that works in a lab, so she's wants me to give her my resumé and she'll pass it along. It's a crazy world, who knows? Maybe something will come of that...it's all about who you know.
Friday, September 22, 2006
Wednesday, August 30, 2006
La Floride
Florida. We almost decided not to go because of Ernesto. We almost couldn't go because my sister is having problems with what the doctor thinks is her gallbladder. We are, however, going to Florida! We may be passing the storm as we drive down and it blows up, but we figure we can always stop at a Hotel along the way if it gets too bad. The doctor said J could go as long as she watches what she eats. So, we are leaving today (Wednesday). I'm not sure when we'll get there...or how much time I'll have to spend with friends. We plan to stay until Tuesday. I'll call around when I have a better idea of what time I'll have free...or feel free to call me and tell me what time you have available. We are going to the family reunion on Saturday at Manatee Springs...provided the storm doesn't cause any flooding or anything...and my friends are more than welcome to come and hang out there too if you want..it's a really cool natural spring and sure beats the heat of Gainesville, and there'll be plenty of free food! Anyway, let me know if you want to hang out, or whatever, and I'll call you in the next couple of days, Lord's Willing.
***It is now Thursday night...we are at my Grandma's house in Bell, Florida just outside of Gainesville. I thought I should write an update to let everyone know what my plans are. Unfortunately because of several factors we didn't leave SC as soon as planned, and ended up stopping in Valdosta because we were too tired...so we didn't arrive in FL until today. That is unfortunate because we are going to Chiefland tomorrow to see other family as they come in for the reunion. One of the days I had set aside possibly for a trip to Gainesville was today and that didn't work out. So...a long sad story short...I don't think I'll be able to come into Gainesville to hang out this trip. I am very sorry for that, but there really just isn't enough time for me to come in to town and spend any respectable length of time...so, as I said before, anyone wanting to escape Gainesville for the weekend is more than welcome to join me at my Grandma's on the Suwannee or at Manatee Springs, just give me a call and I'll give you directions...but I won't be able to go into town. I'm sorry again, and am very sad, but I've been thinking about it all day, and I'm afraid I just can't make it work. :-(
***It is now Thursday night...we are at my Grandma's house in Bell, Florida just outside of Gainesville. I thought I should write an update to let everyone know what my plans are. Unfortunately because of several factors we didn't leave SC as soon as planned, and ended up stopping in Valdosta because we were too tired...so we didn't arrive in FL until today. That is unfortunate because we are going to Chiefland tomorrow to see other family as they come in for the reunion. One of the days I had set aside possibly for a trip to Gainesville was today and that didn't work out. So...a long sad story short...I don't think I'll be able to come into Gainesville to hang out this trip. I am very sorry for that, but there really just isn't enough time for me to come in to town and spend any respectable length of time...so, as I said before, anyone wanting to escape Gainesville for the weekend is more than welcome to join me at my Grandma's on the Suwannee or at Manatee Springs, just give me a call and I'll give you directions...but I won't be able to go into town. I'm sorry again, and am very sad, but I've been thinking about it all day, and I'm afraid I just can't make it work. :-(
Wednesday, August 16, 2006
Fou...Loco...Vie
Crazy...Crazy...Life. Have you ever had one of those friends, or family members whose life just seems out of control. They are constantly changing their minds and plans. They change majors, change careers, date random people, and just don't seem to have a clue about what they are doing. Over the last couple weeks, I've come to the realization that I am that person. Well, sort of anyway. I have been through at least 50 phases and plans in the last week alone, and still am not completely sure of the current course I've chosen. I haven't let too many people in on each option, because I didn't want to freak anyone out prematurely...I good decision since, for the moment, my choice isn't too drastic. The past couple weeks, however, I've given a great deal of consideration to going in the military. I've also checked into attending Marshall University in West Virginia. I've emailed extended contacts; I've talked to an ex-boyfriend that I hadn't heard from in a long time, who is now in the Army, stationed in Georgia. I've emailed a recruiter. I emailed a department head at MU. I talked to my grandma about sleeping on her couch for a year.
Many things have spurred this renewed search for direction in my life... It's now been a year since graduation, I'm about to conclude my second Summer of peach vending. Saying that I recently graduated and am looking for my "career job" seems pathetic to me, since I've been looking so long. I'm starting to really fear that it's not going to happen now...I don't believe I'm qualified so how will anyone else? I therefore decided that I must take the bull by the horns and take some serious action to get some experience and make things happen. Many people have suggested that I move...it sounds like a good idea, and I'm not opposed to it, but it would not solve the problem. No experience in SC is the same as no experience anywhere else. I then had to develop ways to get experience...that are in my control. Two clear options developed...military or school. I know most of you are thinking that school is the clear choice, but I've always been interested in the military, and the big sign-on bonuses and loan pay-offs certainly help. But it does seem drastic...and though I have been losing weight and toning up, I'd have to do it much faster.
School, on the other hand, is less drastic, but still kinda complicated...or at least seemed to be. You see, what I want to eventually obtain is my Clinical Laboratory Scientist Certification, or Medical Technologist degree. Now it gets more convoluted...UF and many other big Universities don't offer the MT degree. On the other hand, niether do most small Colleges...so you have to find the schools that fall in between...such as Marshall...a small University. So, my path seemed a little clearer...go to MU, get my MT...get a job. So, I emailed the department head there and they made things more complicated and easier at the same time. She said she'd be glad to help me through the admissions process, etc...but that MU has a 2+2 MT program...meaning you get your 2 year MLT (Medical Lab Tech) degree and then come back and get the 4 year MT degree. She went on to say that many people that already have a B.S. degree go through the MLT program, and get jobs in labs working at upper-level MT jobs and then qualify for the MT certification. It seems that this career is one of the few in which there are several routes to obtain the same objective. By combining my B.S. in Microbiology, a year or so of intensive lab and clinical training, and some work experience, I can get exactly what I've wanted all along...a good paying job in a lab. So...what that means for me is that all I need to do is go through the MLT program at Greenville Technical College (with in-state tuition and only about 30 minutes from home). So, very long story short...I'm now corresponding with GTC advisors to see what I need to do to get in their MLT program. See, simple and confusing at the same time...
Continuing in my crazy life theme...I just completed the migraine study. It went really well. I gave a urine and blood sample, had an EKG done, and filled out some information sheets. I then got a migraine, and tried the new medicine. It worked very well...I can't wait till it's on the market. I went back to the lab, gave another urine sample, answered some more questions and got paid $70! If the drug is put on the market it is probably going to be called Trexima..so any ladies out there that suffer from migraines should look into it in the next few years, lol.
My vida loca continues in my love life. I am still dating José. We are now the talk of the Farmer's Market. He's very sweet and funny. We have been meeting at lunch time and after work when we are able, and talk on the phone pretty much every night. It is fun, but not too serious. I like him, but I'm not in love with him. I also keep thinking of reality...and how fast it's approaching for us. The peach season is only supposed to last until Labor Day weekend. After that, I won't be making a delivery at the Market everyday. He will, however, be working there everyday until 6 PM except Sundays. Still, it could work...but he lives near Simpsonville (close to an hour away) and has to be at work early, so he doesn't stay up late. Still it could work...but added to our many differences it just becomes another hurdle, and I'm not sure if our young relationship can jump it...or even really if we should try. It could just be forever a fond memory...a highlight of a crazy time in my life....but then, he is really sweet and fun...so who knows...these days I don't presume to predict any part of my future...
...except for the week around Labor Day weekend...my family is supposed to be going to a family reunion in North Florida! I'll be spending alot of time with family stuff, but should be able to sneak away for a while to hang out if anyone is in town and has some free time. We are supposed to be there from August 30th-September 5. Let me know...and I'll call around before then, since I doubt if anyone is still reading my blog since I keep not updating it :-)
Many things have spurred this renewed search for direction in my life... It's now been a year since graduation, I'm about to conclude my second Summer of peach vending. Saying that I recently graduated and am looking for my "career job" seems pathetic to me, since I've been looking so long. I'm starting to really fear that it's not going to happen now...I don't believe I'm qualified so how will anyone else? I therefore decided that I must take the bull by the horns and take some serious action to get some experience and make things happen. Many people have suggested that I move...it sounds like a good idea, and I'm not opposed to it, but it would not solve the problem. No experience in SC is the same as no experience anywhere else. I then had to develop ways to get experience...that are in my control. Two clear options developed...military or school. I know most of you are thinking that school is the clear choice, but I've always been interested in the military, and the big sign-on bonuses and loan pay-offs certainly help. But it does seem drastic...and though I have been losing weight and toning up, I'd have to do it much faster.
School, on the other hand, is less drastic, but still kinda complicated...or at least seemed to be. You see, what I want to eventually obtain is my Clinical Laboratory Scientist Certification, or Medical Technologist degree. Now it gets more convoluted...UF and many other big Universities don't offer the MT degree. On the other hand, niether do most small Colleges...so you have to find the schools that fall in between...such as Marshall...a small University. So, my path seemed a little clearer...go to MU, get my MT...get a job. So, I emailed the department head there and they made things more complicated and easier at the same time. She said she'd be glad to help me through the admissions process, etc...but that MU has a 2+2 MT program...meaning you get your 2 year MLT (Medical Lab Tech) degree and then come back and get the 4 year MT degree. She went on to say that many people that already have a B.S. degree go through the MLT program, and get jobs in labs working at upper-level MT jobs and then qualify for the MT certification. It seems that this career is one of the few in which there are several routes to obtain the same objective. By combining my B.S. in Microbiology, a year or so of intensive lab and clinical training, and some work experience, I can get exactly what I've wanted all along...a good paying job in a lab. So...what that means for me is that all I need to do is go through the MLT program at Greenville Technical College (with in-state tuition and only about 30 minutes from home). So, very long story short...I'm now corresponding with GTC advisors to see what I need to do to get in their MLT program. See, simple and confusing at the same time...
Continuing in my crazy life theme...I just completed the migraine study. It went really well. I gave a urine and blood sample, had an EKG done, and filled out some information sheets. I then got a migraine, and tried the new medicine. It worked very well...I can't wait till it's on the market. I went back to the lab, gave another urine sample, answered some more questions and got paid $70! If the drug is put on the market it is probably going to be called Trexima..so any ladies out there that suffer from migraines should look into it in the next few years, lol.
My vida loca continues in my love life. I am still dating José. We are now the talk of the Farmer's Market. He's very sweet and funny. We have been meeting at lunch time and after work when we are able, and talk on the phone pretty much every night. It is fun, but not too serious. I like him, but I'm not in love with him. I also keep thinking of reality...and how fast it's approaching for us. The peach season is only supposed to last until Labor Day weekend. After that, I won't be making a delivery at the Market everyday. He will, however, be working there everyday until 6 PM except Sundays. Still, it could work...but he lives near Simpsonville (close to an hour away) and has to be at work early, so he doesn't stay up late. Still it could work...but added to our many differences it just becomes another hurdle, and I'm not sure if our young relationship can jump it...or even really if we should try. It could just be forever a fond memory...a highlight of a crazy time in my life....but then, he is really sweet and fun...so who knows...these days I don't presume to predict any part of my future...
...except for the week around Labor Day weekend...my family is supposed to be going to a family reunion in North Florida! I'll be spending alot of time with family stuff, but should be able to sneak away for a while to hang out if anyone is in town and has some free time. We are supposed to be there from August 30th-September 5. Let me know...and I'll call around before then, since I doubt if anyone is still reading my blog since I keep not updating it :-)
Thursday, August 03, 2006
Cobaye
Guinea-Pig. I am going to be a Guinea-Pig. Tuesday evening I recieved a call from a research center that is a part of my doctor's office. It seems they are doing a study on women that suffer from migraines that they believe are linked to their Estrogen levels. I, as some of you may know, am afflicted by this problem as I have a week of migraines most months. There isn't currently a drug on the market that is capable of delivering the right hormone levels without causing Estrogen-withdrawl migraines. My doctor gives me a lower level patch that helps to control the migraines but that amount of hormone is still too much for me to have a normal cycle. This new study is attempting to combine two drugs that are FDA approved and currently on the market in the hopes that it will provide the appropriate hormone levels and not cause migraines. I thought it sounded like an interesting study and anything that would help me to have a normal functioning body and not give me mind-numbing headaches is something worth being a part of. The study also has a couple of perks... two doctor visits, free drugs, and $25. My first doctor's visit is tomorrow (Friday) and is a complete physical. They said it would take about an hour and a half and will be a total check-up including an EKG. I think it's pretty neat that I get free doctor visits, something I took for granted back in my carefree insured days. They also said that if the drug combination works well on me, they will be able to perscribe both pills until the combination pill goes on the market. Otherwise it would be pretty sucky to find something that works and then not be able to use it until it's mass produced. The 25 dollars isn't bad either...I'd never pass up free money. The woman on the phone said she used to tell people that they buy you a tank of gas...she said now they just buy you about 5 gallons, lol. I'm not looking forward to spending that long at the doctor's tomorrow, but I'm excited to be a part of the study anyway.
In addition to my $25 for the study, I made a random $10 yesterday at the peach stand. I sold a pocket knife that my dad gave me. It wasn't any heirloom or anything, just a knife he bought after he lost his, and then he bought a better one later and he never really liked this one. I thought it was cute, so I asked if I could have it. At the stand we have a sample peach that people taste before buying our fruit...I forgot the usual cutting board and knife that we use at home where it was being washed one day, so I just used my pocket knife and a paper towel for the sample. This woman saw the knife and became obsessed with it. She asked me where I got it and was looking at it and everything. A few days later she asked if I would sell it because she hadn't been able to locate one like it. I didn't have it with me that day but I said I'd think of a price and bring it some other day. She came back the next day, and after talking to my dad who thinks he paid between 5 and 15 dollars for it, I decided to ask for 10, and she paid it! More easy money, haha.
I haven't really written about the West Virginia trip yet, I know. Since we got back I've been working from 7:30 AM to 6:45 PM (and not actually getting home until about 7:30PM). We have been having record high temperatures with the heat index around 105 degrees! So, when I get home I'm much more concerned with a shower, food and bed than with my blog. I've missed writing regularly, but at least my sister is finished with Summer classes, so for the next couple of weeks I won't be working quite as much. I do plan to eventually post some pictures of the family reunion as well as some pics from my recent Florida trip. As far as writing about WV, there really isn't much to say. It was dramatic and tiring, although it was nice to see alot of family members we haven't seen in a long time. My Mom's cousin, Jerry Lee, had a heart attack at the reunion, so that was a major event. The attack was severe with a 99% blockage in one artery, but he was fortunate that not much damage was done to his heart and we just hgot word that he has been released from the hospital. Praise be to the Lord.
We were constantly harassed by this stupid old woman that wouldn't recognize a good time if it walked up and slapped her in the face! Mamma and Dora are living in a senior citizens apartment building that has a code to get in the door. Each tenet gets a code that they use to get it...and originally they were told they could give it out to whom ever they deemed trustworthy. Consequently, they gave it out to the many family members that came and went out of their apartment throughout the weekend. This crazy old bat would stand in the lobby and watch to see if people entered a code and then tell them repeatedly that the letter said no one but residents were supposed to have the code (an intersting side note is that the letter didn't appear until halfway through the weekend when everyone already knew the code). Also we stored some chicken and eggs in a downstairs refrigerator and when two family members went to retrieve it, Crazy asked them if it belonged to them and they told her "yes" and then later the woman told us that they were very hostile...I guess they should have said "yes, you crazy old stick in the mud, it is our chicken!" haha
One other note-worthy moment was when my Mom and I sang karaoke! I've never done that before in my life and almost chickened out, but ultimately decided it would be more fun than embarrassing and it's just family anyway so who cares? Our song of choice was one of our favorites and a number often featured in our home singing sessions..."If I Had $1000000" by The Barenaked Ladies. If you don't know the song, you should, it's funny. We were surprisingly a big hit, and we earned many cheers and applause at the conclusion. Later, Mom, Jenny, and I joined several other family members to sing "Lean On Me" and of course "We Are Family" although it quickly became clear that everyone knew the chorus much better than any of the choruses. It was starting to get addicting by the end...I can see how people go sing it all the time. It was crazy, fun and nerve-racking...much like the rest of the weekend!
In other news, my friend Stacy stopped by my stand yesterday on her way from WV back to Florida. She wasn't able to stay long, but it was really nice to see her, and to meet her friend, Joe. I'm glad that so far I've been able to maintain some of my friendships since moving to SC. I don't get to see or even talk to my wonderful friends as often as I'd like...but know that you are always on my mind, even if I am terrible at picking up the phone! Take care friends, and thank you for hanging in there and reading my sporadic entries!
In addition to my $25 for the study, I made a random $10 yesterday at the peach stand. I sold a pocket knife that my dad gave me. It wasn't any heirloom or anything, just a knife he bought after he lost his, and then he bought a better one later and he never really liked this one. I thought it was cute, so I asked if I could have it. At the stand we have a sample peach that people taste before buying our fruit...I forgot the usual cutting board and knife that we use at home where it was being washed one day, so I just used my pocket knife and a paper towel for the sample. This woman saw the knife and became obsessed with it. She asked me where I got it and was looking at it and everything. A few days later she asked if I would sell it because she hadn't been able to locate one like it. I didn't have it with me that day but I said I'd think of a price and bring it some other day. She came back the next day, and after talking to my dad who thinks he paid between 5 and 15 dollars for it, I decided to ask for 10, and she paid it! More easy money, haha.
I haven't really written about the West Virginia trip yet, I know. Since we got back I've been working from 7:30 AM to 6:45 PM (and not actually getting home until about 7:30PM). We have been having record high temperatures with the heat index around 105 degrees! So, when I get home I'm much more concerned with a shower, food and bed than with my blog. I've missed writing regularly, but at least my sister is finished with Summer classes, so for the next couple of weeks I won't be working quite as much. I do plan to eventually post some pictures of the family reunion as well as some pics from my recent Florida trip. As far as writing about WV, there really isn't much to say. It was dramatic and tiring, although it was nice to see alot of family members we haven't seen in a long time. My Mom's cousin, Jerry Lee, had a heart attack at the reunion, so that was a major event. The attack was severe with a 99% blockage in one artery, but he was fortunate that not much damage was done to his heart and we just hgot word that he has been released from the hospital. Praise be to the Lord.
We were constantly harassed by this stupid old woman that wouldn't recognize a good time if it walked up and slapped her in the face! Mamma and Dora are living in a senior citizens apartment building that has a code to get in the door. Each tenet gets a code that they use to get it...and originally they were told they could give it out to whom ever they deemed trustworthy. Consequently, they gave it out to the many family members that came and went out of their apartment throughout the weekend. This crazy old bat would stand in the lobby and watch to see if people entered a code and then tell them repeatedly that the letter said no one but residents were supposed to have the code (an intersting side note is that the letter didn't appear until halfway through the weekend when everyone already knew the code). Also we stored some chicken and eggs in a downstairs refrigerator and when two family members went to retrieve it, Crazy asked them if it belonged to them and they told her "yes" and then later the woman told us that they were very hostile...I guess they should have said "yes, you crazy old stick in the mud, it is our chicken!" haha
One other note-worthy moment was when my Mom and I sang karaoke! I've never done that before in my life and almost chickened out, but ultimately decided it would be more fun than embarrassing and it's just family anyway so who cares? Our song of choice was one of our favorites and a number often featured in our home singing sessions..."If I Had $1000000" by The Barenaked Ladies. If you don't know the song, you should, it's funny. We were surprisingly a big hit, and we earned many cheers and applause at the conclusion. Later, Mom, Jenny, and I joined several other family members to sing "Lean On Me" and of course "We Are Family" although it quickly became clear that everyone knew the chorus much better than any of the choruses. It was starting to get addicting by the end...I can see how people go sing it all the time. It was crazy, fun and nerve-racking...much like the rest of the weekend!
In other news, my friend Stacy stopped by my stand yesterday on her way from WV back to Florida. She wasn't able to stay long, but it was really nice to see her, and to meet her friend, Joe. I'm glad that so far I've been able to maintain some of my friendships since moving to SC. I don't get to see or even talk to my wonderful friends as often as I'd like...but know that you are always on my mind, even if I am terrible at picking up the phone! Take care friends, and thank you for hanging in there and reading my sporadic entries!
Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Je Suis Ici
I Am Here. I know it has been too long since I've written an entry, and I sincerely apologize to my readers...if I still have any, but I am still here. This time I really don't even have the excuse that nothing is going on...my only defense is that I've been working alot, and am too tired and hot to sit at the computer when I get home. Today, however, I had the day off since I was supposed to go out of town so I am able to still be awake at 11:51PM. So without further ado about nothing...
I did, as many of you know, make it to Florida a couple of weeks ago. The trip was fantastic! I got to spend time with many of my wonderful friends, and even got to spend some time with family in Cocoa. When I'm at home, I so often just miss hanging out and talking with friends, so it was really refreshing to see everyone. I especially enjoyed the "Girl's Outing" which I found to be not only fun but therapeutic as well. Thank you Z for putting up with me for an entire week, and even welcoming me into your family's home. It was a great week, and I started missing you as soon as you dropped from sight in my rear-view mirror! I'm sorry, Rob, that we didn't get a chance to get together...we'll have to make up for that next time!
Things here have been going pretty well. I have, as I said earlier, been working a lot. My sister has been getting really busy in school, so I've had to work many of her shifts in addition to mine which makes for a 7:30AM-6:45PM day! The money has been good, but with temperatures often in the high nineties, it's been pretty rough. I have, however, been spending more and more time with José. We talk every morning at the Farmer's Market, and then he often comes over to my stand at lunch time, and then comes over after he gets off too if I'm working late. We also have been talking on the phone alot. I still have serious doubts that he will be "the one" but he has many great qualities that are at least for now very compelling. He is nice, funny, and thoughtful, and I might add, a talented kisser. Who knows how long it will last, but for now, it's fun, and I enjoy talking to him everyday. He even came over to my house last Sunday(our only day off). It was a bit awkward at first having him meet my family, but after a while it got easier and after watching the end of Apollo 13, playing several games of badminton, and a couple hours of talking on the porch, I would say the visit was a success. He even brought some boiled peanuts that I had joked about a few days earlier saying they would impress my Dad.
Tomorrow I leave for West Virginia. We are headed to the Butcher Family Reunion in Huntington (Go Herd!). I will be coming back on Sunday. I really look forward to seeing Mamma...I haven't seen her since November when she moved there. I'm also looking forward to a relaxing weekend, and the pool at our hotel! I'll be sure to write all about it when I return...honestly, I'll try ;-)
My Mom got me the neatest thing the other day. It is "The Men in Uniform" calander featuring none other than The Alachua County Sheriff's Office and The Gainesville Police Department! It is the most random and cool thing I've gotten in a long time. Anyone that knows me well, knows I love men in uniform anyway...and Mom happened to be watching Regis and Kelly the other day (a show she never watches) and Regis was talking about this calender being sold by the ASO and the GPD. She thought I'd get a kick out of it, and portions of the proceeds go to support Reichert House and The Florida Sheriff's Youth Ranch. I think it's a great idea and recommend you check it out! I've added it as a link on the blog.
I hate it when I go long periods without writing, because then I feel that I need to do alot of catching up, so the entry becomes more dry and news-like and loses alot of its flow and wit. I felt that especially with this entry, so I apologize...
I did, as many of you know, make it to Florida a couple of weeks ago. The trip was fantastic! I got to spend time with many of my wonderful friends, and even got to spend some time with family in Cocoa. When I'm at home, I so often just miss hanging out and talking with friends, so it was really refreshing to see everyone. I especially enjoyed the "Girl's Outing" which I found to be not only fun but therapeutic as well. Thank you Z for putting up with me for an entire week, and even welcoming me into your family's home. It was a great week, and I started missing you as soon as you dropped from sight in my rear-view mirror! I'm sorry, Rob, that we didn't get a chance to get together...we'll have to make up for that next time!
Things here have been going pretty well. I have, as I said earlier, been working a lot. My sister has been getting really busy in school, so I've had to work many of her shifts in addition to mine which makes for a 7:30AM-6:45PM day! The money has been good, but with temperatures often in the high nineties, it's been pretty rough. I have, however, been spending more and more time with José. We talk every morning at the Farmer's Market, and then he often comes over to my stand at lunch time, and then comes over after he gets off too if I'm working late. We also have been talking on the phone alot. I still have serious doubts that he will be "the one" but he has many great qualities that are at least for now very compelling. He is nice, funny, and thoughtful, and I might add, a talented kisser. Who knows how long it will last, but for now, it's fun, and I enjoy talking to him everyday. He even came over to my house last Sunday(our only day off). It was a bit awkward at first having him meet my family, but after a while it got easier and after watching the end of Apollo 13, playing several games of badminton, and a couple hours of talking on the porch, I would say the visit was a success. He even brought some boiled peanuts that I had joked about a few days earlier saying they would impress my Dad.
Tomorrow I leave for West Virginia. We are headed to the Butcher Family Reunion in Huntington (Go Herd!). I will be coming back on Sunday. I really look forward to seeing Mamma...I haven't seen her since November when she moved there. I'm also looking forward to a relaxing weekend, and the pool at our hotel! I'll be sure to write all about it when I return...honestly, I'll try ;-)
My Mom got me the neatest thing the other day. It is "The Men in Uniform" calander featuring none other than The Alachua County Sheriff's Office and The Gainesville Police Department! It is the most random and cool thing I've gotten in a long time. Anyone that knows me well, knows I love men in uniform anyway...and Mom happened to be watching Regis and Kelly the other day (a show she never watches) and Regis was talking about this calender being sold by the ASO and the GPD. She thought I'd get a kick out of it, and portions of the proceeds go to support Reichert House and The Florida Sheriff's Youth Ranch. I think it's a great idea and recommend you check it out! I've added it as a link on the blog.
I hate it when I go long periods without writing, because then I feel that I need to do alot of catching up, so the entry becomes more dry and news-like and loses alot of its flow and wit. I felt that especially with this entry, so I apologize...
Tuesday, July 04, 2006
Pas Le Même
Not The Same. Working at the peach stand, like many other places, can get monotonous. Everyday I get up at 6:45AM, get ready, arrive at the Orchard at 7:30AM where I pick up my peach-laden truck. I then head down to the Greer stand and pick up some other stuff...usually blueberries, plums and tomatoes. I then drive to the Greenville Farmer's Market and make a delivery. After unloading the truck, getting baskets back, and getting paid, I drive over to my stand where I unload my truck, set up the stand, and sell peaches until 1:30 on an early day, or 6:30 on a late day. I then load all the empty baskets on the truck and drive it back to the orchard. This would be the reason I haven't written as many blog entries of late. I simply haven't had much to write about. I worked 45 1/2 hours last week selling peaches, and that doesn't leave too much time for anything else.
Well, I'm telling you about my boring, ordinary days, so that I can tell you about an exception. Today, wasn't quite like every other day. I still had to get up early, which was bad since we had a BBQ thing last night to celebrate the 4th (a day early since Dad was off that night, but not tonight). The day actually started off kinda sucky, because I went around a corner and dropped a peck of plums (that's a small basket for those of you that aren't produce savvy) off the back of my truck. They spilled all over the road. I was so mad at myself and scared of telling my boss, but she actually just laughed and said things like that happen sometimes and it was no big deal. Yesterday her grandson dropped 15 big watermelons off the back of his truck, so at least my plums aren't too bad in comparison.
When I got to the Farmer's Market, still kicking myself about the plums, it was nice to see and talk to Juan, the guy that works at the Farm I deliver to, and unloads my truck. We've been talking a little more each day that I've been working there, and it's become more and more apparent that he likes me. Yesterday he asked for my number, and I gave it to him. Today he asked if I would date him. I decided to be honest and tell him I didn't know. I explained that it could be difficult because we are very different, and he said to take my time and think about it. He gave me a 1/2 gallon of fresh-squeezed orange juice too, which really has nothing to do with anything, but it was nice. So, I think what I'm going to do is tell him we'll take it slow and see how it goes...get to know each other better...hang out and go out somewhere away from produce and see if there's any potential there.
My work then continued as usual, with the exception of it being so hot that I thought I would melt any minute and having to endure hearing about where people are going on vacation, and what they're making with their peach purchases all day. Then, at about 1:00PM this man came in that often comes in during my morning shift to buy a small bag of soft peaches. He bought his usual order, and then asked me a question no one else down there ever has...have you had lunch? I said no, but that I was getting off soon, and then would get lunch. He insisted on bringing me lunch. We went back and forth for a while until finally I broke down and accepted the offer...expecting just a hamburger on a paper plate or something simple like that. Well, he came back about 30 minutes later and gave me a feast! First he handed me a ceramic plate full of homemade chicken and rice served with fresh lemon and lime wedges, mint, basil, and parsley and covered in a grilled tortilla. I was amazed at that, and thanking him profusely, when he handed me a bowl of salad with a homemade vinagrette. Again I thanked him, and then he handed me a mug of ice, and a bottle of Coke. He even brought a fork and spoon. I was floored. I told him I had no idea that he was going to give me so much and told him I needed to give him free peaches, but he wouldn't hear of getting anything in return. I split the lunch with J and it was truly amazing, and such a luxurious meal to eat under a road side tent that doesn't even have electricity. I don't even know that man's name, but I'm so very grateful for his kindness...I will have to strive to be like that to people that I meet!
So, my day wasn't that different than any other day. I still answered dumb questions all day, sorted through itchy peaches, and sold a ton of produce, but the day had a refreshing feel to it...but then, maybe that's just those peaches...they are so darn refreshing!
Only 4 days left 'til Florida, I really can't wait!!!
Well, I'm telling you about my boring, ordinary days, so that I can tell you about an exception. Today, wasn't quite like every other day. I still had to get up early, which was bad since we had a BBQ thing last night to celebrate the 4th (a day early since Dad was off that night, but not tonight). The day actually started off kinda sucky, because I went around a corner and dropped a peck of plums (that's a small basket for those of you that aren't produce savvy) off the back of my truck. They spilled all over the road. I was so mad at myself and scared of telling my boss, but she actually just laughed and said things like that happen sometimes and it was no big deal. Yesterday her grandson dropped 15 big watermelons off the back of his truck, so at least my plums aren't too bad in comparison.
When I got to the Farmer's Market, still kicking myself about the plums, it was nice to see and talk to Juan, the guy that works at the Farm I deliver to, and unloads my truck. We've been talking a little more each day that I've been working there, and it's become more and more apparent that he likes me. Yesterday he asked for my number, and I gave it to him. Today he asked if I would date him. I decided to be honest and tell him I didn't know. I explained that it could be difficult because we are very different, and he said to take my time and think about it. He gave me a 1/2 gallon of fresh-squeezed orange juice too, which really has nothing to do with anything, but it was nice. So, I think what I'm going to do is tell him we'll take it slow and see how it goes...get to know each other better...hang out and go out somewhere away from produce and see if there's any potential there.
My work then continued as usual, with the exception of it being so hot that I thought I would melt any minute and having to endure hearing about where people are going on vacation, and what they're making with their peach purchases all day. Then, at about 1:00PM this man came in that often comes in during my morning shift to buy a small bag of soft peaches. He bought his usual order, and then asked me a question no one else down there ever has...have you had lunch? I said no, but that I was getting off soon, and then would get lunch. He insisted on bringing me lunch. We went back and forth for a while until finally I broke down and accepted the offer...expecting just a hamburger on a paper plate or something simple like that. Well, he came back about 30 minutes later and gave me a feast! First he handed me a ceramic plate full of homemade chicken and rice served with fresh lemon and lime wedges, mint, basil, and parsley and covered in a grilled tortilla. I was amazed at that, and thanking him profusely, when he handed me a bowl of salad with a homemade vinagrette. Again I thanked him, and then he handed me a mug of ice, and a bottle of Coke. He even brought a fork and spoon. I was floored. I told him I had no idea that he was going to give me so much and told him I needed to give him free peaches, but he wouldn't hear of getting anything in return. I split the lunch with J and it was truly amazing, and such a luxurious meal to eat under a road side tent that doesn't even have electricity. I don't even know that man's name, but I'm so very grateful for his kindness...I will have to strive to be like that to people that I meet!
So, my day wasn't that different than any other day. I still answered dumb questions all day, sorted through itchy peaches, and sold a ton of produce, but the day had a refreshing feel to it...but then, maybe that's just those peaches...they are so darn refreshing!
Only 4 days left 'til Florida, I really can't wait!!!
Monday, June 26, 2006
Il Pleut
It's Raining. And has been all day. But as the saying goes.."The peaches must be sold!" Wait, that's not the saying...someone should inform my boss. She was always just about to let me go home and close my stand when the rain would let up for a few minutes. Thinking it was bound to let up for good any minute (despite the flash flood warnings) she instructed me to wait out the bad parts of the storm in the truck, and to sell peaches when it wasn't raining. Just another one of those days that makes you look around and wonder what you're doing with your life!
I've been thinking alot about that lately. After work on Saturday, I did some shopping in Downtown Greenville and then got a Caramel Frappachino and walked down to the Reedy River Falls Park. I happened to stumble onto the Wachovia Rhythm of the Tropics Festival. I had no idea it was going on, and just turned around a corner to find bands and people and food everywhere. It was fun to just wander around, getting lost in the crowd. I watched some of the performances including a Latino Hip-Hop group complete with Shakira-like dancers, considered buying some interesting food but refrained after seeing high prices and long lines. I ended up sitting on a stone wall across from the water falls. I love to just sit there and observe the scenery. You have rolling green hills surrounded by little stone walls. There are people scattered around the park..some partaking of a picnic on blankets, others posing for family pictures, or playing catch with their dog. There are couples holding hands on the swings, and kids sliding down the gentler slopes of the Falls. It takes you back to some other time, and really has an uncanny ability to slow life down. It is the perfect place to go and think things over.
I thought about my life. I thought about my disappointment at not finding a career job. My frustration at not really getting connected to a social atmosphere and new people here. I longed for friends in Florida. I found comfort in being closer to family. I smiled as I thought about my planned trip to Florida in a few weeks. My mind wandered through confusion as I thought about the guy I see everyday at work that I'm pretty sure likes me alot. I consider my responses if he ever does actually ask me out. He is Mexican, which isn't necessarily a problem, but is very different. I consider the line between giving new opportunities a chance, and reacting to the first chance that comes along. I don't want fear to make decisions for me...if I reject someone out of fear of what others will think, or what differences will arise that is not right...but niether is accepting them out of fear that I'm being judgemental or stemming from lonliness. I have been in relationships in which I was loved...and one in which I loved...I long for a relationship in which I can both love and be loved. Until I find that, I guess any opportunity is worth at least a little exploration, because who knows which will be the one? I don't know how long I spent sitting there, listening to the bustle around me, and the low roar of the Falls before I decided I should head home. I didn't really decide anything, or come up with anything profound...but I did feel incredibly refreshed and prepared to take on whatever comes next in my life at the crossroads.
I'd like to take a moment to welcome my good Venezuelan/French friend to the Blogsphere. She has recently launched her own blog entitled Vida and can now be found in my links. I'm not too sure she's decided to keep up with it yet, but what she's posted so far is great, and I look forward to reading more!
As mentioned earlier in this post... I have decided to pay a much needed visit to The Sunshine State. I plan to arrive in Gainesville on July 8th. The current plan is to then spend a couple of days in my hometown of Cocoa. I will then return to Gatorville to spend the rest of the week. I leave for home on Sunday, July 16th. I'm very excited about spending the time with my friends, and resting in blissful familiarity! If you have time to hang out that week, be sure to let me know!
I've been thinking alot about that lately. After work on Saturday, I did some shopping in Downtown Greenville and then got a Caramel Frappachino and walked down to the Reedy River Falls Park. I happened to stumble onto the Wachovia Rhythm of the Tropics Festival. I had no idea it was going on, and just turned around a corner to find bands and people and food everywhere. It was fun to just wander around, getting lost in the crowd. I watched some of the performances including a Latino Hip-Hop group complete with Shakira-like dancers, considered buying some interesting food but refrained after seeing high prices and long lines. I ended up sitting on a stone wall across from the water falls. I love to just sit there and observe the scenery. You have rolling green hills surrounded by little stone walls. There are people scattered around the park..some partaking of a picnic on blankets, others posing for family pictures, or playing catch with their dog. There are couples holding hands on the swings, and kids sliding down the gentler slopes of the Falls. It takes you back to some other time, and really has an uncanny ability to slow life down. It is the perfect place to go and think things over.
I thought about my life. I thought about my disappointment at not finding a career job. My frustration at not really getting connected to a social atmosphere and new people here. I longed for friends in Florida. I found comfort in being closer to family. I smiled as I thought about my planned trip to Florida in a few weeks. My mind wandered through confusion as I thought about the guy I see everyday at work that I'm pretty sure likes me alot. I consider my responses if he ever does actually ask me out. He is Mexican, which isn't necessarily a problem, but is very different. I consider the line between giving new opportunities a chance, and reacting to the first chance that comes along. I don't want fear to make decisions for me...if I reject someone out of fear of what others will think, or what differences will arise that is not right...but niether is accepting them out of fear that I'm being judgemental or stemming from lonliness. I have been in relationships in which I was loved...and one in which I loved...I long for a relationship in which I can both love and be loved. Until I find that, I guess any opportunity is worth at least a little exploration, because who knows which will be the one? I don't know how long I spent sitting there, listening to the bustle around me, and the low roar of the Falls before I decided I should head home. I didn't really decide anything, or come up with anything profound...but I did feel incredibly refreshed and prepared to take on whatever comes next in my life at the crossroads.
I'd like to take a moment to welcome my good Venezuelan/French friend to the Blogsphere. She has recently launched her own blog entitled Vida and can now be found in my links. I'm not too sure she's decided to keep up with it yet, but what she's posted so far is great, and I look forward to reading more!
As mentioned earlier in this post... I have decided to pay a much needed visit to The Sunshine State. I plan to arrive in Gainesville on July 8th. The current plan is to then spend a couple of days in my hometown of Cocoa. I will then return to Gatorville to spend the rest of the week. I leave for home on Sunday, July 16th. I'm very excited about spending the time with my friends, and resting in blissful familiarity! If you have time to hang out that week, be sure to let me know!
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